Wedding Wire Wranglers 5 Things to Remember That Won’t Get Lost in the Cake Topper Drama.
So you’re engaged! Congratulations! You’re probably bouncing off the walls with excitement (and maybe a teensy bit of terror). But before you get swept away in a Pinterest vortex of tulle and table settings, let’s take a beat and wrangle those wedding planning wires.
Because let’s be honest, planning a wedding can feel like herding cats in tutus. There’s a million things to remember, from tracking down the perfect caterer who doesn’t think finger foods are just pigs in a blanket (although, they can be amazing!), to finding a dress that makes you feel like Beyoncé without the whole carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders thing.
Fear not, fellow fiancé(e)! Here are 5 key things to remember that will hopefully prevent you from having a meltdown over a missing monogram on the napkins (trust me, it’s not the end of the world).
1. Budget Like a Boss (Even if You’re Not One)
Weddings can be expensive, honey. Like, suddenly ramen noodles sound fancy expensive. So, sit down with your partner and have a grown-up conversation about what you can realistically afford. No need to be Scrooge McDuck about it, but don’t break the bank before you’ve even said I do. Prioritize what’s important to you both, whether it’s that killer band or a ten-tier cake that would make Willy Wonka jealous (because, let’s be real, cake is important).
2. Communication is Key (Especially When You Want to Cry)
Planning a wedding can be stressful. You’ll disagree on things, that’s a fact. But instead of giving each other the silent treatment (which, let’s face it, is hard with all the wedding planning chatter), talk it out! Communicate openly and honestly, and remember, compromise is your new best friend. Unless it involves pineapple on pizza. Draw the line there.
3. Delegate Like a Ninja You are not Wonder Woman (or Superman)
It’s okay to ask for help! Don’t be afraid to delegate tasks to friends, family, or even that overly enthusiastic co-worker who keeps asking about wedding details (Sharon, we’re looking at you!). A little help can go a long way in keeping you sane and preventing you from turning into a Bridezilla (or Groomzilla).
4. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff (Especially the Cake Topper Drama)
Let’s be real, things will go wrong. A centerpiece might wilt, your aunt Mildred might show up in hot pink hot pants (no judgment, Mildred!), or the weatherman might be wrong (shocking, I know). But here’s the thing it probably won’t matter in the grand scheme of things. Focus on what matters most celebrating your love with the people you care about. And hey, if the cake topper breaks, who needs a plastic Mr. and Mrs. when you’ve got the real thing
5. Enjoy the Ride (Even When You Want to Pull Over)
Wedding planning can be a whirlwind, but try to soak it in! This is a special time in your life, and it’s supposed to be fun (most of the time). Savor the moments, laugh off the mishaps, and remember, at the end of the day, it’s about starting a new chapter with the person you love.
So there you have it! With a little planning, communication, and a whole lot of laughter, you can navigate the wedding planning wilderness and emerge victorious (and probably a little bit tipsy from all the cake tastings). Now go forth and conquer, you crazy lovebirds!