Hitched Without a Hitch: 10 Wedding Planning Must-Do’s (Because You’re Busy Enough Already).
So you’re engaged! Congratulations! Now, before you get swept away in a Pinterest-fueled frenzy (trust me, it happens), let’s take a deep breath and focus on the key things to remember for your wedding prep.
1. Budget Like a Boss:
This isn’t sexy, but it’s crucial. Be honest with yourselves about what you can afford, and don’t be afraid to get a little spreadsheet-happy. Your happily ever after shouldn’t come with a side of crippling debt.
2. The Guest List:
The Art of Gracefully Saying No: It’s your day, but family can be…enthusiastic with the invites. Now’s the time to channel your inner ninja and gently but firmly deflect requests from Aunt Gertrude’s mailman (seriously, who even is that guy?). Guests didn’t RSVP before the cut off date? Perhaps the new trend of sending a ‘…sorry you missed our RSVP date, let’s catch up after our big day..’ note might work for you.
3. Venue Vibes:
Think “dream location,” not just “pretty pictures.” Consider the logistics – is there enough parking, will Grandma need a sherpa to get to the dance floor? And don’t forget acoustics, look good-sound good!
4. Delegation is Your BFF:
You are not Wonder Woman or Superman. Bridesmaids, groomsmen, even that over-enthusiastic cousin who color-codes their sock drawer and loves spreadsheets – put them to work!
5. Cake or No Cake?
Who Cares! It’s your day; ditch traditions that don’t resonate with you. Think donut wall, mountains of cheese, a late-night taco truck – whatever fuels your happy dance!
6. The Dress (or Suit!):
Find something that makes you feel like a million bucks, not like you’re trapped in a meringue. Comfort and confidence are key – the big day is a marathon, not a sprint.
7. Feed Me! (and Your Guests):
Food is love, people. Don’t skimp here. But remember, fancy doesn’t always equal delicious. Focus on good quality, crowd-pleasing options, and maybe a signature dish that reflects your personalities.
8. Capture the Chaos:
Hire a photographer and videographer you trust. They’ll capture the magic, the mayhem, and everything in between. Ask your friends, family or colleagues for recommendations. These are memories you’ll cherish forever, pick wisely.
9. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff:
Things will go awry, that’s a given. A button might pop, a speech might run long – but guess what? It’ll all just become part of your unique story. Focus on the love, the laughter, and the fact you’re marrying your best friend.
10. Enjoy the Ride!
Celebrate your love! Wedding planning can be stressful, but it should also be exciting! Savour this special time, delegate what you can, and try to steal some loved-up moments with your new life partner. Breathe, and take it all in.